How do you introduce a weighted cuddly toy to your child?

You’ve bought a weighted stuffed animal, but how do you make sure your child actually uses it? A gentle, step-by-step introduction helps your child get used to it and build trust.

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Children are sensitive to change. A new stuffed animal — even one as comforting as a Lotgenootje — can take some getting used to. By introducing a weighted stuffed animal gradually, you give your child the opportunity to build a bond at their own pace. This way, it doesn’t feel like something they have to do, but something they get to do.

1. Start small

Let your child get acquainted with the weighted stuffed animal during the day. Place it on the couch or next to your child during a quiet moment. This way, your child can discover how nice the weight feels without any pressure.

2. Make it playful

Use the stuffed animal while playing or reading together. Give it a name and include it in the play. This way, the stuffed animal becomes a friend instead of just a tool.

3. Link to positive moments

For example, place the stuffed animal on your child’s lap during a calm moment or while reading before bedtime. Positive associations help build trust.

4. Build up gradually

Start with short moments — a few minutes while watching TV or in bed. Is that going well? Then you can let your child use the stuffed animal for longer periods, including while sleeping.

5. Create a ritual

Make the weighted stuffed animal part of the bedtime routine. For example: first brush teeth, then read a book together with the stuffed animal. This way, it becomes a consistent part of the evening routine.

• Let your child help decide: when is the stuffed animal allowed to join in?
• Don’t force anything. If your child reacts negatively, try again at a later time.
• Combine the weighted stuffed animal with familiar elements like a favorite blanket or part of the regular bedtime routine.
• Use positive language: don’t say “because you can’t sleep otherwise,” but rather “it gives you a calming hug.”

• Choose a weighted stuffed animal that weighs between 5% and 10% of your child’s body weight.
• Not suitable for children under 3 years old.
• Regularly check for any damage or loose parts.

I can’t live without it anymore ♡ Because my son thought it was too heavy, the stuffed animal ended up in my bed. After 6 months, my son wanted it back. For 6 weeks, I slept terribly — constantly waking up at night and unable to fall back asleep. I ordered another one, and I slept wonderfully again right away. That can’t be a coincidence. We’ve tried several other brands for my son, but none are as good, as soft, and as nicely weighted as Lotgenootje ♡ – Marije

A small-scale study on weighted products for children with sleep problems showed that nearly 70% of the children fell asleep faster after a period of getting used to a weighted stuffed animal or blanket.